*Usher and his mother are back on good terms, but he still wishes she hadn’t deliberately stayed away from his wedding three years ago.

Even though he divorced his former stylist Tameka Foster two years later, the 32-year-old tells October/November Vibe magazine he was “very disappointed” that his mother decided not to watch him exchange vows.

Usher, whose mother used to manage him, says he “wouldn’t do that to my child.” The singer says “parents should be able to have unconditional love for their children and their decisions, regardless of how they feel.”

Usher and Foster have 2-year-old and 1-year-old sons.

The October/November issue of Vibe hits newsstands Oct. 12.