mary j. blige*Seasoned diva and Queen of Hip Hop Soul, Mary J. Blige is looking forward to the future with her husband. But she’s not ready to settle down all the way… with kids that is.

“When it’s time. When it happens, it’s in my future,” said Blige. “I’m not planning it. I don’t want to do it because it’s the trend. I was a babysitter when I was a kid. I babysitted kids from 12 to like 16 years old. I’ve changed diapers. I’ve heard them cry…”

As far as her marriage, she and her man, Kendu Isaacs, are very much in love and plan to keep it that way, despite any rumors or ill-wishes toward the couple.

“The 411 is my marriage is not on the rocks,” Blige told Wendy Williams during an interview last week. “But, I would be a liar and my fans would hate me if I said to them ‘oh we’re perfect’ and ‘everything is great’. We have situations just like everyone else. We’re not out in public trying to kill each other but it’s real. We love each other. That’s it.”