black love*This silly article (As written by Michael H. Cottman of Black America Web) reminds me of a story that I heard once.

Allow me to relate it here:

A potential pastor went to a church to meet with the current pastor and some of the church men. After conversing with them for a while, he surprisingly said that one of the things he believed was that in order for church services to go well on Sunday morning, the men of the church should not have sex with their wives on Saturdays. The men looked at him and then looked at each other and immediately disqualified him for the job. This potential pastor was talking straight for a while, but when he made this statement, they were shocked. -BCNN1 Editor

What’s the point of being married if you’re not having sex with your spouse?

I thought the reasoning  for marriage, in part, was to spend quality time with your soul mate, which also includes monogamous sexual intimacy.

But Jon and Darla Crocker, who have been married for two years, never consummated their marriage. What do I mean? They have never had sex.

“If it was holy before,” Darla says, “it must be double-holy afterwards.”

What does “double-holy” mean anyway? Do they really believe they’ll get additional brownie points from God because they are not having sex after marriage? But Jon and (Darla) have been husband and wife for 25 months of marriage without any sexual contact.

Read more at Black Christian News.