Kelly Rowland Good Morning America*Singer Kelly Rowland does want to start a family one day, but contrary to recent rumors going around, she says it’s not in the cards just yet.

Specifically, there has been talk around town that Ms. Kelly Rowland and boyfriend Tim Witherspoon went off and got married. Well the “Dirty Laundry” singer set the record straight during her recent interview with E! News; while still adding in her plans for a family in the future.

“I don’t know. Too busy with the career,” Kelly told Terrence J. “I do want kids, I do want to be married. But, I want one kid.

While most people dream of big families, Kelly feels one child will allow her to focus her time on ensuring her baby turns out “nice, smart and mentally stable.” But she is letting us all know that she isn’t adding a baby room to her home anytime soon. She does love kids, but would much rather babysit for friends and family when needed.

“It’s been a minute [since I babysat]. I think I would really enjoy it right now, because I just need to hold a kid and give it back. Sometimes its good birth control,” she said before explaining that there’s one big thing keeping her from starting a family. “I’m still selfish.”

She added, “I like my time, I like to wake up whenever I want to and I like to come and go as I please. I don’t know if I’m ready to share that time with another person, I don’t wanna mess them up.”