monique & sidney

*A lot of talk is being made around Mo’Nique‘s revelation of her open marriage with husband Sidney Hicks. Earlier this week, she spoke on giving a man a ‘free pass’ to cheat:

“The person that you stood up and you said ‘for better, for worse, sickness and in health, richer or poorer’ you took those vows in front of the universe. If you don’t live by them, then maybe you shouldn’t have taken them. And when you say ‘a pass to cheat’… see when you’re with your best friend and you say to your best friend ‘I’m having these feelings about this person, sexually and I wanna share it with you’.. when you’re best friends, you can have those open and honest conversations. Often times people cheat because of something they’re not getting. But when you have open and honest dialogue and you say we’re just human beings and all these people on the face of the earth, do you think my eyes won’t ever say ‘he’s fine’ or ‘she’s attractive’. Now if you wanna go further with it, let’s be honest enough to have those conversations. What is it about that person that you find that you wanna sleep with? Because they may give you something that I’m simply not willing to do. And if that’s the case, how can I be mad? Because I’m not gon’ do it. Should I deprive you of not having it? That’s when the relationship is real, real.”

Well, most folks assume that she was making excuses for Sidney to cheat, but a video has popped up of a no-holds barred routine that pretty much says the open marriage was her idea, not Sidney’s. In fact, she says that people assumed that it was her husband’s idea because she was overweight.

“What nobody knew, was that the open marriage was not his idea, it was mine ….Cuz at the time in my life, I had an attitude of n*gga, I’m a baller….A muthaf*ckin shot caller…We were in the Bahamas for a night and I said, ‘N*gga check this out.’ Now keep in mind, I’m talking to my best friend since we were 14 years old. This ain’t no new n*gga. I said to my best friend, ‘Nigga check this out. From time to time, a b*tch travels the world. From time to time, I like to f*ck other n*ggas.’ And my best friend said to his best friend, ‘B*tch I love you so muthaf*cking much, you f*cking another n*gga ain’t got sh*t to do with me. If that’s gonna make you happy, go f*ck another nigga.’ He said but you know I can f*ck other b*tches. I said well n*gga wait a minute.

It’s not the greatest quality, but … watch:

Video of Monique fully addressing her " open marriage" statement at last night show at NJPAC in Newark,NJ .

Posted by Baller Alert on Saturday, November 21, 2015

Hmm, this kinda, sorta reminds us of the situation between Nicki Minaj and Safaree Samuels who recently revealed that he had to play the submissive role in the relationship. so what do you think now?

Spotted at: theJasmineBrand and Baller Alert